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December 24, 2009

Our Annual Family Newsletter

Dear friends and family,

We love the Christmas season and the opportunity to receive and share photos and letters with loving friends and remember our Savior. This year, we turned the letter writing over to, ME! Raquel.

Raquel Scarf Web

Baby Joel is bouncy and very fun to be around! He is running like a pro and is starting to say some words such as Mom, Dad, and “A phone.” He is a happy wanderer (like previous models) and loves food and the dogs.

Joel Close Web

Liliana is our little girly-girl, loving to have tea parties and play with her dolls. I personally don’t love her ALL the time, having her in my room and all.

Lily Leaves Web

Seth is our locomotive. He had fun this fall doing Joyschool with Lily and some other friends. He and Isaac get along really well. He is great at unloading our dishwasher.

Seth '09 Web

Isaac is loving the charter school here! He is great at making friends and making people laugh. After all, Isaac means laughter! He loves to do everything Nathan does.

Isaac '09 Web

I, Raquel, love making things, especially treats. I am trying to be an organized girl. I really like rock-climbing and ballet, newspaper club at school, and violin. I also love to write books!

Raquel '09 Web

Nathan loves playing the guitar. He is still into designing and engineering. He played baseball this year, and flew a plane!!! He and I are taking both piano and voice lessons.

Nathan Web

We have had a friend, Natalia living with us since May. She’s a real help. All of the kids love her!!!

My Mom, Jenni, has been working and working on her new blog about doctoring, cooking and schooling at home, and is having fun with it. She’s also taking voice lessons and singing a lot.

Jenni headshot web

My Dad, Mike, has been teaching at George Wythe College and working in the ER. He is in his fifth year helping with the Boy Scouts (maybe he still hasn’t learned everything he’s supposed to).

Mike Web

Highlights of our Year

Nathan: Working as a program seller at the Shakespearian Festival, hiking around Machu Picchu

Program Selling

Me:  Being a Scottish doll in Coppelia. Program selling. Whale watching, Boston Science museum, Louisa May Alcott house

Isaac: Visiting the Native People at the Plymouth Plantation on our Boston trip, going to the charter school

Seth: Playing Dominoes at Grandma’s house, Joyschool

Lily: Going to Joyschool this fall, playing with her kitchen set, cutting her own hair

Joel: Joining the big kids in nursery at church

Dad: Taking Nathan to a Springsteen concert, taking a great group to Bolivia, the Minuteman museum

Mom: Finishing her Master Herbalist degree (finally!), launching her Dr Mom Essentials blog

We love hearing from you all and seeing your beautiful lives and families. Thank you for keeping in touch and sharing your friendship with us. We hope the Lord’s richest blessings will be with you and yours throughout the coming year.

Love, Mike, Jenni, Raquel, Nathan, Isaac, Lily, Seth & Joel

December 10, 2009

Swine Flu Vaccine: Get Informed Before You Vaccinate

Read Up Before You “Go With The Flow” to get vaccinated

***Update-You’ve got to read this recent article that claims the flu vaccine is not as effective as everyone thinks. The article published by naturalnews.com is called Shock Vaccine Study Reveals Influenza Vaccines Only Prevent the Flu in 1.5 out of 100 Adults (not 60% as you’ve been told). Why are we getting any flu vaccines if they’re not effective?

I have not felt comfortable with the Swine Flu Vaccine since the beginning of the swine flu pandemic. It seems that the Read more…

December 6, 2009

Why We Switched to a Self Directed IRA

Mike had to make a decision. He finally got to the point where he didn’t want his retirement savings going to support Wall Street banking.

After moving to Cedar City and discovering George Wythe College, Mike took a class in political economy. He started reading  classics on economics such as Economic Harmonies written in the 1850′s by French economist Fredrick Bastiat and Wealth of Nations written in 1776 by Scottish philosopher Adam Smith.

His paradigm was totally altered, and he began thinking the difference between wealth and prosperity: wealth is accumulated and concentrates, whereas prosperity is used and spreads. I pondered this too, as he shared all his thoughts with me.

Mike was stewing at last year’s bailouts of wall street CEOs and big business at the tax payers’ expense. He even wrote a post about it. We had many discussions about different models of business. We came to the understanding that when profit is the only goal of a company- usually any means, fair or foul will be used to accomplish that end. Business is almost always end driven.

Bailout Spoof, starring our 3 youngest, Joel, Lily and Seth. I couldn’t resist sharing this while we’re on the topic. We’ve laughed over it so many times! (There’s a tiny iffy part, so don’t watch if you’re easily offended.)

There are definitely exceptions to this rule. Google is an example of a company that has been means driven. Their first goal was to satisfy their users. Their customer was truly their priority. When this is the case, products and services won’t be corrupted by greed for profits.

Mike says that a great business model has a 3 fold mission.

  1. Provide for customer
  2. Make a profit
  3. Care for employees

Of course, there are many other great things businesses can do and do do, but when profit becomes the priority, customers and employee concerns will be sacrificed.

Anyway, Mike’s been depositing money in an IRA for the past 5 years. He has slowly become disenchanted with the idea of his personal money supporting business that sacrifices ethics and morals to generate a greater profit. He finally started looking for other options (besides Wall Street) for investing his money.

We have had a few investment opportunities come our way in which we really wanted to participate. One opportunity involved helping our dear friends launch a new business. Unfortunately, the IRS slaps strict and hefty penalties on those who prematurely withdraw their money from the established system.

Though the IRS makes it somewhat complicated, Mike found some possibilities with a self-directed IRA. It scared us at first, but we got tired of feeling limited by government and banking establishments, we went ahead and took the leap.

With the help of an investment company, Guidant Financial (there are numerous companies that do this kind of thing), Mike set up the additional IRA account and transferred half of his retirement savings.

He’s purchasing some precious metals and planning some real estate investing. He’s excited about this new found freedom.

There are still enough rules and hoops to jump through with the new IRA that we may not continue putting our retirement savings into tax-deferred vehicles. We are planning to pay off our debt and build an investment account of our own that we can do with whatever we want. We’ll pay more in taxes up front, but have more freedom in the long run.

Businesses that are smaller and local and affect our own communities are much better places to invest. Those that have a morality and a social purpose are better long-term investments. They promote the well-being of the community and the prosperity of the whole, instead of the concentrated wealth of the few.

We never realized how controlling our retirement banking system was until we tried to buck it. It’s frustrating that the only way to save in a tax-deferred status is to send the money to Wall Street and large corporations. But the more of us that refuse to submit to the status quo or put up with the amorality of unaccountable leaders and businesses, the greater the possibility is that things will change.

Sometimes it takes a leap of faith.

Here’s a hilarious piece by one of my favorite musicians, Tom Chapin, that echos our sentiments after the bailouts (this has scenes from “Night of the Living Dead” so if zombies gross you out, please don’t watch).

It’s only by letting inefficient organizations fail that better ones will be created in their stead.

December 6, 2009

The Joke’s on You Doc

Posted in ER Stories    

There’s a doctor that works with Mike in the ER, I won’t name any names, but I hear he’s a bit of a jokester; I’ll call him Doc #1. And there’s another doc that’s more serious, level-headed and conservative (he would never break the rules)-I’ll call him Doc #2.

One day the hospital was repaving the cement of the entrance to the ER. The job was finished, but the cement was still wet. Mike was working, and Doc #1 suggests they go out and etch their names into the soft concrete. Mike asked him if he was crazy.

Doc #1 continued to describe how fun it would be, trying to persuade Mike to join him, but to no avail.

A few days later, someone showed Mike a photo of the concrete. It ended up, Doc #1 had written the name of Doc #2 with the year 2009.

Doc #2 was fairly concerned when he heard that his name was etched in the concrete. He vehemently denied doing the dirty deed. What Doc #1 didn’t realize was there was a video surveillance camera at the entrance. It had recorded the whole act.

Some people started joshing Doc #1, telling him he was going to have to pay $1500 to get the patch of concrete repaved. Someone got a hospital administrator to write him a letter telling him he was going to be required to pay. Some people even got mad at the administrator, thinking he was going overboard…

Doc #1 finally figured out it was a big joke on him.

Moral of the story: Make sure the cameras are turned off when you’re going to play practical jokes, especially if you blame your actions on someone else (or maybe don’t do the deed in the first place–you may save yourself some grief).

December 3, 2009

The Kid Who Wanted to be Deaf

This made me sad and angry when Mike told me about this case.

A boy was brought in by his parents because he had stuck corn kernels in his ears and they couldn’t get them out. Mike was able to remove them and afterward asked the boy why he had put them there in the first place.

His response was, “There were movies on at my house, and I didn’t want to hear the bad things.”

I seriously want to cry for children that feel this way.

Moral of the story: Don’t allow our precious, innocent children to view things that are scary or inappropriate. Even if we are desensitized to intense media, we should still protect the purity and happiness of our little ones.

December 2, 2009

The Toddler Who Was High

Posted in ER Stories      

One time Mike had a concerned, young mother bring her toddler who couldn’t walk, into the ER. The child appeared intoxicated, acting overly relaxed and woozy. The mother had no idea why.

Mike ran some tests. They came back positive for marijuana. And it wasn’t the level that a person might have from just breathing second-hand smoke. The tests showed a high amount, more than if the child had smoked it herself.

Mike told the mom and asked her how it could be so. She denied giving any to her daughter or smoking around her. She thought about it for a minute, and then explained that they lived in an apartment complex. It had a small park where she had taken her daughter to play that day.

Occasionally her daughter would put cigarette butts in her mouth, and that day she had. Mike felt that she was telling the truth. They came to the conclusion that the child had chewed on a joint long enough to ingest some of it.

Moral of the Story: Kids will put anything in their mouths. Be vigilant with young children in places that have lots of cigarette butts (or try to avoid allowing them in such places).

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